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Love

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Love...

Is way more complicated to put into words than feel with you heart and soul. To say things love is not perfect in any way shape or form. You cant express love with just I love you, or a diamond ring, constant attention, with sex or with favors. Love is a mess of feelings, and emotions. Anger, bitter, happiness, satisfaction, sadness, joy, relaxation. No one person is perfect, and in your lives, you probably wont be able to meet your perfect other, because to do that you would need to meet the whole world. No one can do that, and if you know someone who has, please introduce meet to this person. So with that, no one can meet their perfect other, you just meet a wonderful person.

Hopefully, this wonderful person can make your life as happy as possible because if not for happiness, then why do we live? With that said I'd like people to know when you meet your significant other NEVER expect perfectness. It will never happen and the more you expect it, the least chances you have of it coming true.

Personally, I always try to appreciate everything people do to me and I have a way of sharing that appreciation. I'm not saying I do it the right way, I just do it my way and if that is not enough for anyone then why bother? Am i right? I never look for the most perfect person, I never look for a perfect girlfriend because I don't need it. What I want is a person who can make me happy who I can imagine my life with. If I am not allowed to have that and find that, then maybe I will live alone. No... I lie, I probably won't live alone, I'll just live miserably. I want to add that making me really happy is not an easy task, so finding the one that does is a pretty difficult feat.

Love is like river, it flows never ending and ever-changing. One day a person could love you, the next day they could love someone else. I know us humans aren't perfect and I don't expect us to be. I just expect me and you to live in harmony. I don't need an angel to come from the sky and perform me a miracle. I need a girl who makes mistakes, one who is willing to explore and learn about the world with me. Not the girl who wants to learn about me only. Those who want to only learn about the other usually end up leaving or being left. Thats why people who wait for a while for a relationship to get going usually have more chances of it working. I'm no expert in the matter of love nor do I pretend to be, but I think the more you get to know the person your with the more chances you will have of having that relationship work. I think when you know the person and you start a relationship you don't have to worry about getting to know each other, and focus more on yourself. This sounds greedy but its not. When you are able to live so comfortably with someone that you can act yourself and focus on yourself, you will be able to show your love to your other much more smoothly and will come naturally. Then you wouldn't need to prove anything to your other. You wouldn't need to worry about the other since you know how he/she is. You wouldn't need to worry about trust. You wouldn't need to worry if that is the one, or if this another fling.

So for now, ill stay single till I find my non-perfect, girl that makes me happy. I'll wait for her with no rush so wherever you are take your time. <3
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LadyofGaerdon's avatar
"When you are able to live so comfortably with someone that you can act yourself and focus on yourself, you will be able to show your love to your other much more smoothly and will come naturally."

So true...but I think some of us do meet the perfect person for us (not that that makes the person perfect in general), despite the odds, if we're lucky.